Do This, Not That: The Neurocomplex 'Tough Love' Guide to Intellectual Intimacy
Stop wasting energy on people who can’t match your mind. Learn how to find real intellectual resonance.
If you are neurocomplex—gifted, AuDHD, or just wired to think intensely—you know attraction isn’t about looks, chemistry, or status. It’s about finding someone whose mind meets yours, who can hold depth without shutting you down, and whose presence actually feels like relief instead of another stressor.
Most people cannot meet you there. Most advice will leave you drained, anxious, and questioning yourself.
Inside this guide, I break down tough-love strategies for navigating intellectual attraction. You will learn how to:
Spot the rare minds that truly resonate
Stop wasting energy on shallow connections
Protect your nervous system while building relationships that excite and challenge your brain
This isn’t fluff. It’s the roadmap for neurocomplex adults ready to stop settling.